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Partnersuche
❤️ What does "die Partnersuche" mean?
Die Partnersuche describes the active process or effort of a person to find a suitable life partner or a stable romantic relationship. It's a compound noun formed from Partner (partner) and Suche (search).
It usually refers to the search for a long-term, committed relationship, but depending on the context, it can also include the search for a 'friends with benefits' situation or a casual relationship.
🚨 Note: The word is almost exclusively used in the singular form as it describes the general process.
Article rules for der, die, and das
-e/-ee → almost always feminine.
There are many -e nouns, many of which are feminine, but there are also some important exceptions.
🧐 Grammar: Feminine and Mostly Singular
The word "Partnersuche" is a feminine noun. Therefore, the correct article is die.
Declension (Singular):
| Case | Article | Noun | English Meaning of Case |
|---|---|---|---|
| Nominative | die | Partnersuche | Who/What? (Subject) |
| Genitive | der | Partnersuche | Whose? (Possessive) |
| Dative | der | Partnersuche | To whom? (Indirect Object) |
| Accusative | die | Partnersuche | Whom/What? (Direct Object) |
Although a plural form ("die Partnersuchen") would be grammatically possible, it is extremely rare in everyday language because the word usually refers to the general process.
Example Sentences
- Die Partnersuche im Internet wird immer beliebter. (Searching for a partner online is becoming increasingly popular.)
- Nach der Trennung begann er wieder mit der Partnersuche. (After the breakup, he started searching for a partner again.)
- Viele Agenturen spezialisieren sich auf die Partnersuche für Senioren. (Many agencies specialize in partner searches for seniors.)
- Sie gab viel Geld für die Partnersuche aus. (She spent a lot of money on the partner search.)
💬 How to use "Partnersuche"?
"Partnersuche" is used to describe the entire process of looking for a romantic partner. Typical contexts include:
- Personal conversations: When talking about one's own love life or that of friends.
- Media: Articles, advice columns, TV shows about dating and relationships.
- Services: Online dating platforms, matchmaking agencies, singles events.
Common phrases:
- auf Partnersuche sein: to be actively looking for a partner ("Ich bin gerade auf Partnersuche." - I am currently looking for a partner.)
- die Partnersuche aufgeben/einstellen: to give up/stop the search.
- erfolgreiche/schwierige Partnersuche: describing the process as successful/difficult.
Compared to "Dating" (which often refers to specific dates or appointments), "Partnersuche" describes the overarching state or intention of looking for a partner.
💡 Mnemonics for Partnersuche
Article Mnemonic: Remember that die Suche means the search and is feminine. Since "Partnersuche" ends in "-suche", it's also feminine: die Partnersuche.
Meaning Mnemonic: Imagine you are searching for a Partner. What are you doing? You are on a Suche (Search). Combine them: Partnersuche – the search for a partner.
↔️ Synonyms & Antonyms
Synonyms (similar meaning):
- Liebessuche: (Love search) Emphasizes the romantic/emotional aspect more strongly.
- Partnerfindung: (Partner finding) Sounds a bit more formal or goal-oriented.
- Brautschau/Bräutigamschau: (Bride show/Groom show) Outdated, describes the traditional search for a spouse.
- Balz: (Courtship ritual) More common in a biological context (animals) or used humorously for human courtship behavior.
Antonyms (opposites):
There are hardly any direct antonyms. Instead, one usually describes the state of not searching or being in a relationship:
- Singleleben / Singledasein: (Single life / Single existence) The state of being without a steady partner (not necessarily searching).
- Alleinsein: (Being alone) Can be chosen or unwanted, not specifically related to partnership.
- In einer Beziehung sein: (Being in a relationship) The state of having found a partner.
⚠️ Similar but Misleading Words:
- Personalsuche: Personnel search (looking for employees).
- Haussuche: House hunting (looking for a flat or house).
😄 A Little Joke
DE: Warum ist die Partnersuche wie ein Flohmarkt? Man muss sich durch viel Ramsch wühlen, um vielleicht ein Schätzchen zu finden!
EN: Why is searching for a partner like a flea market? You have to sift through a lot of junk to maybe find a treasure!
✍️ Poem about the Partner Search
DE:
Die Partnersuche, mal Freud, mal Leid,
Ein Herzklopfen weit und breit.
Man hofft, man sucht, man schaut genau,
Findet vielleicht die richtige Frau, den richtigen Mann, wer weiß das schon?
Am Ende zählt die Innunion.
EN:
The partner search, sometimes joy, sometimes sorrow,
A heartbeat felt both near and far tomorrow.
One hopes, one seeks, one looks with care,
Finds maybe the right woman, the right man, who knows where?
In the end, it's the inner union that counts fair.
❓ Riddle
DE:
Ich bin ein Weg, doch ohne Karte,
Mal voller Hoffnung, mal voll Harte.
Man sucht zu zweit das Glück, das Band,
Oft digital, mal Hand in Hand.
Was bin ich?
EN:
I am a path, but without a map,
Sometimes full of hope, sometimes a tough trap.
Two seek happiness, the bond they planned,
Often digital, sometimes hand in hand.
What am I?
(Solution: die Partnersuche / the partner search)
🧩 Further Details
Word Composition:
The word "Partnersuche" is a compound noun, composed of:
- der Partner: The partner (the person with whom one has or wants to have a relationship).
- die Suche: The search (the act of searching).
Cultural Significance:
The way people search for partners (Partnersuche) has changed significantly in society, especially due to the internet and dating apps. It is a central theme in many life stages and reflects societal norms and values.
📝 Summary: is it der, die or das Partnersuche?
The word 'Partnersuche' is feminine, so the correct article is always die Partnersuche. It refers to the process of searching for a life partner or a romantic relationship.